Nicole “Snooki” Polizzi is one of the stars of MTV’s hit reality series, “Jersey Shore.” She’s also a wife and mom of two.

Recently, the proud mom shared a photo of her youngest child, 4-year-old Giovanna Marie LaValle, on Instagram. She was inevitably mom-shamed as a result.

The picture captured Giovanna and Jenni “JWoww” Farley’s daughter at their co-star’s wedding shower this past weekend.


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Here’s a pic of us at our first red carpet event. We were so young. @jwoww #TheHitchuation

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Snooki joked in the caption, eluding to how much their daughters look just like them:

Here’s a pic of us at our first red carpet event. We were so young.

However, fans started mom-shaming the 30-year-old because of Giovanna’s appearance:

Kids hair is crazy.

Snooki replied saying:

Let her live.

But the shaming continued:

Girl you have money dress your girl better. She’s beautiful but needs to look nicer. You take time to do your hair face and fress do the same for her.

The protective mom of two fought back again, replying:

Mind your own business tho…I let my daughter pick her own outfits. I let her express herself. Are you a mother? Worry about your own damn kid, and let us live. She 4 god damn years old, f*ck off.

She didn’t stop there:

Commenter: [Why] didn’t [you] dress sissy up?

Snooki: She picked her outfit and she looks beautiful

And again:

Commenter: How come you never comb your kid’s hair?

Snooki: Are we mom shaming? Who gives a f*ck. We drove with the windows down singing and enjoying life. Sorry I can’t always brush and braid her hair like you, perfect mom. Blocking you pain in the a**.

Some of the other comments read:

I thought the EXACT SAME THING. My kids play and get messy but if we are going out, the are groomed. I have girls so they always have some kind of braid/updo to their hair from getting tangled/sticky/in their face.

I would be so mad if someone brought their kid to my wedding looking like they were going on a trip to Walmart. Using the excuse she dressed herself? There’s a time and a place.

I love love love these two women, but seriously. Step up your hair game with these two. This messy hair don’t care look is very unpolished and just looks lazy. A little detangler, spray gel and a hair tie would work wonders for these little girls. Just saying… Not Very Red Carpet

Snook with all the cute clothes you have access to you dressed baby girl like she’s going to the park. Sandals no crocks! You can do better I’ve seen it. Love you still. Just a little constructive criticism.

Snooki also has a six-year-old son named Lorenzo Dominic Lavalle.

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