On May 31, Minnesota native Kathleen Dehmalow passed away. She was 80 years old, according to her obituary.

Her two biological children wrote and shared her obituary in the local newspaper, the Redwood Falls Gazette. However, the obituary was a bit different…

As it turns out, Kathleen’s children had a lot of animosity towards their mom and they explained why in her obituary.

It started out like a normal obitiuary:

Kathleen Dehmlow (Schunk) was born on March 19, 1938 to Joseph and Gertrude Schunk of Wabasso. 

She married Dennis Dehmlow at St. Anne’s in Wabasso in 1957 and had two children Gina and Jay. 

But then the write-up gave a very honest description:

In 1962 she became pregnant by her husband’s brother Lyle Dehmlow and moved to California. 

She abandoned her children, Gina and Jay who were then raised by her parents in Clements, Mr. and Mrs. Joseph Schunk. 

She passed away on May 31, 2018 in Springfield and will now face judgment. She will not be missed by Gina and Jay, and they understand that this world is a better place without her.

Dearly attempted to search for the obituary on the Redwood Falls Gazette website. However, it appears to have been removed.

According to USA Today, in the comment section of the obituary, one women reached out to tell Kathleen that despite allegedly wronging her children, God loves her more than anyone:

The good Lord loves you more than anyone else ever could. You are in Heaven now with your Savior. R.I.P.

Another commenter hoped Kathleen found peace:

What a life she lived. Hope you find peace.

It remains unclear why the obituary was removed from the website.

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