The controversial anti-vaccination movement is continuing to grow across the country, despite some schools cracking down on mandatory vaccines.

As Dearly previously reported, the number of unvaccinated children has quadrupled since 2001. Many parents now claim religious or philosophical exemption, which is legal in several states.

However, this can seemingly cause more than health issues for the unvaccinated children.

One mom on Reddit said that she recently had to uninvite a child from her daughter’s birthday party because the little girl wasn’t vaccinated.

The mom explained that her daughter’s best friend could easily get sick and she wasn’t willing to take the risk. She wrote:

After I sent out invites to my kids birthday party, I found out one of her friends from dance was unvaccinated. My daughters best friend is in remission from leukemia and is immunocompromised. An unvaxxed kid could kill her. I uninvited the dance kid and very nicely explained the situation.

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She went on to explain that her daughter’s friend beat cancer at age five and the idea of her catching a preventable illness made her want to “rage.”

But the uninvited child’s mother didn’t take the snub too well. The mom wrote on Reddit that the woman tried to get her daughter kicked out of their children’s dance school.

Then the angry mother’s plan allegedly backfired.

The dance teacher was “flabbergasted” that the child was unvaccinated and asked her to change dance schools. The birthday party mom explained:

The dance school owner is an older lady and had no idea there were idiots these days that didn’t vax so she implemented a new rule that students had to be up to date and the unvaxxed kid had to find a new dance school. I felt bad for the kid but her mother is a sociopath. Herd immunity saves lives when it comes to kids fighting cancer.

Do you think the mom throwing the birthday party should have uninvited the child? Let us know in the comments.

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61 Replies to “Mom Uninvited Girl From Birthday Party Because She was Unvaccinated. Child’s Mother Lashed Out”

  • Anonymous 2 years ago

    No the mother was right. I would have done the same thing. I would feel sorry for the child but that is on his or her mother’s choice. What is wrong with parents these days putting their children at risk?

  • Dee 2 years ago

    Totally agree with the mom. She was doing right by her child’s best friend.

  • Anonymous 2 years ago

    An UN-vaccinated child is the one at risk. Children who have been vaccinated against disease will not be at risk while the ones who haven’t are at risk. I understand the cancer kids mom not wanting her around unvaccinated kids but that is on her not on the others.

    • Anonymous 2 years ago

      False. Once a new strain grows inside the kid who isnt vaccinated, every one is at risk. Because the new strain could get around present vaccinations. And start an out break

      • Anonymous 2 years ago

        Only for the flu shot. Our kids are vaccinated but not for the flu but we don’t visit elderly people and we keep safe distance from babies

        • Anonymous 2 years ago

          Do you go out in public? Library? Grocery store? House of worship? Costco? Home Depot? Get my point?

    • Anonymous 2 years ago

      Actually the child who was immunocompromised is the one at risk because the unvaccinated child could transmit to the immunocompromised child whose immune system is weak and said pathogen could very easily kill her. I would have done the same thing. It sucks the kid is missing out because of her mother’s choice, but it is what it is. If this mom is so upset, perhaps she should vaccinate her child.

      • Jennifer Ann Mendez 2 years ago

        The cancer kid IS the unvaccinated kid. There is reason why you DONT give a cancer kid who went thru cancer treatment a vaccine because they have no immune system. Fact is that anyone who takes a vaccine has a risk of contracting the actual disease and the vaccine can cause your bodies immune system to fight itself which can be deadly to a kid without an immune system. Why the hell do you think they tell people not to give a kid a flu shot or any vaccine for that matter, if they are sick. Well a cancer kid is sick so to then tell them the opposite is irresponsible and can prove deadly. There are allergic reactions to vaccines all the time whether they want people to believe it or not. I know all to well the allergic reactions that could happen because my nephew is DEAD due to the Pertussis Vaccine and a AutoImmune reaction that causes seizures. They have known since the 40’s that the Pertussis Vaccine can cause brain damage and seizures. They just didn’t tell us and my nephew developed seizures within a few days after receiving his 2nd DTP shot. The results was seizures, brain damage, Autism and diagnosis by the Neurology Dept of Children’s Hospital in San Diego. The Neurologist then informed us he was NEVER to receive the Pertussis vaccine again and when he was 19 he had a Grand Mal Seizure while he was sleeping and he passed away. There are plenty of kids who will die due to the Vaccines so they are not allowed to have them. A child with Cancer could die simply by taking the shot. It’s nobody’s business what the parents AND the child’s doctor have discussed or their treatment plan because under HIPAA guidelines, nobody but the parents, child or Doctors office has the right to be privy to that information. So if people want to vaccinate their kids then fine go ahead and I pray your kid doesn’t die from seizures, but don’t tell someone else whose child is already battling a deadly disease that they must now have a vaccine that can kill them due to their medical diagnosis. If the pharmaceutical industry could be held liable for the medical problems that have occurred to kids, then maybe people would be ok with risking it but they can’t. They don’t have to guarantee the vaccine won’t cause permanent brain damage and even death, so many just can’t afford to risk their child’s life and health and that is their right. They are the parent so let them parent their kids without the government dictating how that is done, since it’s none of their damn business!

        • sara L Berman 2 years ago

          the cancer child is not the unvaccinated child in question. There was another child who was uninvited to party when the mom found out she wasn’t vaccinated. The mom of the birthday girl didn’t want to risk the girl with cancer.

      • Diane soper 2 years ago

        Really. The unvaccinated child was healthy. How do you know. It is said that, if you have had a vaccine you should not go near an immune Suppressed person for a certain time. I wonder why that is…. 3 out of 3 ain’t bad eh!!!

        • Marsha H 2 years ago

          You’re not supposed to go near an immunocompromised person, because they can’t fight it off like the healthy unvaxxed child. Are you actually reading the story? Do you understand what herd immunity is? You seem confused on the basic premise of a vaccine.

    • Barbara Manson 2 years ago

      That is not true. An UN-vaccinated child can have germs that do not affect her but could have damaging effect on a child who is compromised. Shame on you blaming the mother who chose this for her daughter, As a nurse who lived through polio, measles, whopping cough and diphteria outbreaks I am angry that mothers make decisions and then complain because others do not accept it.

  • john dobise 2 years ago

    I wonder if that mother who decided not to vaccinate her daughter leaving her without polio vaccine? My parents decided they would rather that I didn’t grow up crippled, in an iron lung or dead, so they had me vaccinated. Saw a real iron lung in the lobby of a local hospital with pictures of kids in other ones, which brought back fears we kids had back then. Wonder if the mother was vaccinated when she was young? Can’t get over all the kids smiling.

    • D 2 years ago

      Research when they sprayed everyone and everything with DDT in case the mosquitos carried polio. I think he DDT in you system would have something to do with your body having paralysis. all animals they ate and drank from, you name it… How would you going eating and drinking this….

      • Marsha H 2 years ago

        Ahhh, ok. I see now. You are just crazy.

  • Anonymous 2 years ago

    Should always vaccinate your children !!!!

  • Leslea DeVelbiss 2 years ago

    If an unvaccinated child is around an immuno-compromised child they can pass bugs along that could kill. The mom was right to uninvite the child who wasn’t vaxxed. Everyone thinks its only a threat to the unvaxxed kid, its not. I have a kid in a wheelchair who is immuno-compromised. The odds of her getting stuff is increased but lessened with vaccines. I am not putting a kid who could be carrying lord knows what (due to being unvaxxed) near her. Even if there is a 5% chance its not worth it. You want your kids to socialize, VACCINATE them!!!!

  • Craig Murphy 2 years ago

    These are instances where compassion needs to be tossed out with yesterday’s trash. People who do not have their children inoculated jeopardize the health of every other child with whom their children are in contact. Parents have the right to protect the health of their children and hurt feelings be damned.

    The same thinking can apply to illegal aliens who enter this country without being checked for communicable diseases and parasites and being immunized. Recently, among these diseases are tuberculosis, pertussis, HIV and full blown AIDS. The law requires that these children receive an education and are integrated with American kids. They are ticking health time bombs and put the herd immunity in peril.

  • Anonymous 2 years ago

    I am amazed that parents don’t research vaccines and find out how dangerous they are. They contain formaldehyde, aluminum, stem cells from aborted fetuses and many more highly toxic ingredients. The US Supreme Court ruled vaccines as “unavoidably unsafe” and then gave them complete immunity from prosecution for the vaccine injured. The taxpayers now pay for vaccine injuries while the vaccine manufacturers reap huge profits at the expense of our children’s health. The Vaccine Court has already paid out over $3 Billion to the vaccine injured. It is estimated that less than 1% of vaccine injuries are reported and apply for compensation to cover the huge medical bills caused by the vaccines. Those that do apply have to wait years for a fraction of the amount to cover the medical bills. The FDA is a revolving door between with the drug and vaccine companies. FDA execs approve vaccines and then take grossly high salaries at the vaccine companies as thanks for the approval. These vaccines are no longer tested by unbiased scientists. They are ‘fast tracked’ based on manipulated studies done by the vaccine companies. Wake up America – your children are treated as guinea pigs at the expense of greed.

  • Anonymous 2 years ago

    What is truly amazing is how people still believe a fake report written years ago to make a competitors vaccines look unsafe so the British NHS would by the vaccines made by his company.

    People need to understand that because of random genetics a vaccines can potentially injure a small number of the overall population but is totally harmless to the overwhelming number of the population. Ask your doctor what adverse side affects are for each vaccine and observe your child to see if they manifest.

    And for those that think vaccines are harmful do yourselves a favor and read history so you can learn about the diseases that used to ravage the worlds populations and how many people use to die from them. An interesting one to look at is how people would take scabs from small pox sores and insert a piece of it into there skin to vaccinate themselves. Is that what you want to go back too?

  • Jennifer Williams 2 years ago

    I remember “Chicken Pox Parties” from my childhood. I never got vaccinated for it, but my siblings all had chicken pox at the same time. I was fortunate…I NEVER caught them. (My brother has had ACTUAL Chicken pox 3 seperate times as an adult as well.) When I entered the medical profession, I was not immunized. They were demanding that I take the vaccine to get my job. I forced the issue, and had a blood titer checked. It’s a test that checks for immunity. Turns out, I had a natural immunity. I didn’t require vaccination. As I stated, I never developed the rash, fever, or any symptoms of the disease…the doctor theorized that being in close contact to it helped me develop a healthy immunity.

    Now, my son…he actually developed both chicken pox AND measles AFTER receiving his vaccines for them. This was confirmed through his doctor. He shouldn’t have contracted them because neither vaccine is live, but he did. Now he has a natural immunity for both in addition to vaccine.

    My point with this is, NATURALLY AQUIRED IMMUNITY is always better. It lasts longer, is produced specifically by YOUR body (FOR YOUR body). I feel people should be allowed to develop natural immunity for some illnesses like chicken pox. Things like polio are different. Polio is/was terrible and typically had lifelong effects. Most cases of chicken pox were not. Otherwise healthy people can/could get it and recover with no problems.

    The biggest fault with vaccines (besides the fact that YES, some cause harm), is that once a strain is vaccine-eradicated, we run the risk of developing new ones. The prime example is Influenza. The Flu vaccine has to be tweaked EVERY YEAR because the virus constantly mutates. We cannot eliminate it, we can only tweak the vaccine and hope it works that year. This is how future generations are going to end up dealing with other diseases.

    • Anonymous 2 years ago

      Awesome – how can I acquire natural immunity to polio for my kids? And DTaP and Tdap covered diseases? SMH….. You got lucky. Chickenpox can be deadly as can Measles. Rare cases, of course, but why take a risk when there’s a vaccine? I’m not playing roulette with my kid’s health. Nor do I want to take them to a Chicken Pox party where they can get sick and be miserable and perhaps develop life long scars. The stupidity of people never ceases to amaze me.

    • Jennifer Ann Mendez 2 years ago

      One of my aunts was a newborn being breastfed when ALL her siblings got chicken pox. She NEVER got them and she is an elementary school teacher. Turned out because she was being breastfed at the time, she acquired the immunities thru my grandmother and she was naturally immunized by my grandmother.

    • JerryDV 2 years ago

      Jennifer – I’m on chemotherapy. I have to take an anti-viral every day, twice a day to prevent shingles since I had chicken pox. I had an episode of shingles before I was diagnosed and treated for cancer. My oncologist told me shingles is caused by the varicella-zoster virus — the same virus that causes chickenpox. After you’ve had chickenpox, the virus lies inactive in nerve tissue near your spinal cord and brain. Years later, the virus may reactivate as shingles. My oncologist didn’t recommend I get the shingles vaccination or the flu shot.
      If one can avoid having chicken pox by being vaccinated, I believe it should be done.

  • Elizabeth 2 years ago

    To the poster who posted about how dangerous vaccines are – I wonder if they realize how dangerous and deadly all the diseases that no longer run rampant because of vaccines. Oh and when those kids who are unvaccinated get sick from something they wouldn’t get sick from because they are unvaccinated, guess who pays for it?? The American taxpayer but in the form of higher health insurance costs.
    As someone just said to me, it’s a personal decision. Yes, but be prepared for situations like this where your child and their germs are unwelcome because it could kill someone else. It’s a personal decision….

    • Jennifer Ann Mendez 2 years ago

      I would give for my nephew to have acquired whooping cough instead of seizures and brain damage. Funny how after he was diagnosed with vaccine acquired seizures due to the Pertussis vaccine, he was prevented from ever getting the vaccine again. Well in 19 years he never acquired Pertussis. No the bad whooping cough never killed him but the Vaccine when he was a baby DID! He died from a massive seizure caused by the Vaccine he got 19yrs prior.

  • Anonymous 2 years ago

    My grandchild was born prematurely. Everyone concerned about immunology. I have not been vaccinated against flu, nor will I ever be. It’s a scam. Now I can’t visit my grandchild for several months until they feel antibodies have been created. No Prob! Whenever they want to see me is fine. No skin of my teeth!

  • Melissa 2 years ago

    The risks of being injured or dying from being vaccinated is so much lower than the risk of being injured or dying from the diseases that the vaccines prevent.
    The risk of catching these diseases is rising due to so many people refusing to vaccinate, and sadly I fear that the trend will continue until the inevitable happens and there is a major outbreak and a lot of people die.

    • Magda 2 years ago

      That’s how I thought in the past. Not any more…

  • Get it together 2 years ago

    So many injuries from vaccines that the industry and doctors are trained to lie to you about half un aware because they went to school to be disinformed an now owe for that and Make it all back vaccinating your children. Shame, millions will learn the hard way and regret the rest of their life vaccinating and their innocent children, who are suffering. This is disgusting! And shaming anti vaxxers isn’t going to make your vaccines work. If vaccines worked then you would have nothing to worry about. Vaccines, mutate, can make viruses and straines worse and actually cause illness injuries, for life sometimes very serious cases kill. And you signed a paper saying the doctor and pharma are not held responsible. It’s absurd soft kill genocide. Indoor plumbing is the reason people became healthier and spread less disease, has nothing to do with vaccines and it’s a lie you didn’t thoroughly research.

  • Sara 2 years ago

    If any of the children were recently vaccinated the little girl was more likely to catch something from them due to shedding then the unvaccinated child.

    • Lynn Scott 2 years ago

      I’m glad you pointed that out, Sara! Just what I was thinking.

  • Anonymous 2 years ago

    I work at an elementary school and the people who are from other countries ,such as Honduras all are up on their shots because we offer them free to anyone on our soil. The people who do not get their children shots are too lazy to go get the free shots and then they claim religious beliefs when the older children in the family have all their shots. Like we say when enrolling these nuts You can’t fix stupid.

  • Anonymous 2 years ago

    I can’t imagine not seeing either one of my grandkids when they were newborns…or being so selfish/stubborn to not want to see them. Good for the newborns parents for putting their foot down and protecting the baby. Sorry, but it doesn’t sound like your too happy to be a Grandma to begin with.

  • Heather L. Kuehl 2 years ago

    It is every parent’s right to decide whether or not to decide to vaccinate their child, but it is also my right to decide not to allow your child around mine because you have chosen not to vaccinate. I will respect your decision so I expect you to respect mine. I believe in vaccinating my children because I have friends that are immuno-compromised and are at risk and I have had childhood friends that have passed away from cancer. With anything medical, there are going to be risks. But because of their invention, with the exception of some rare cases, vaccines have been able to nearly eradicate several really nasty illnesses, and until recently when the thought of not vaccinating became the popular thing to due, a ton of others were also nearly eradicated but are now starting to make a resurgence. Yes, some people may have extremely serious reactions to the vaccines, some may only have bad reactions, but most will have only very minor or no reactions.

    • Research inserts 2 years ago

      There’s another topic. Passed away from chemo and radiation more like it… Why would anyone think that poison can heal…It might get you by if you get it early but you may only get another 4 or 5 year and it will come back… You should not go near cancer patients if you just have a vaccine…I wonder why….They a making a resurgence because everyone is getting injected with it. There immune systems are not real any more. There bodies are going against how it is supposed to work.

      • Anonymous 2 years ago

        I am sorry, but one of my very best friends beat cancer while we were sophomores in high school over 20 years ago. Radiation saved my stepdad’s life after he had throat cancer. Chemo and/or radiation also saved my grandfather’s life after he had colon cancer and my grandmother’s life after breast cancer. So no, I do not believe that chemo nor radiation kills every cancer patient. My original post was not about cancer, so take your crap somewhere else.

  • Magda 2 years ago

    So much ignorance. Read the truth about vaccinations! I learned too late. My older son already got 2 shots of gardisil.

  • Anonomous 2 years ago

    I say live healthy avoid toxic vaccines and die when you die. Hate me for it, I do not care. All nurses are indoctrinated and the entire vaccine industry $$$ is based on lies and experiments. Your children are their guinea pigs.

  • Kristin Gray 2 years ago

    I agree with heather and the mother in this article. My son is my priority and i refuse to let any possible threat near him! Too bad for the un vaxed kid and mom. Its gonna happen on both sides of the fence- you do you, I’ll do me. My son’s grandma, grandpa and cousins and aunts all got the tdap and flu shot as i required them to do when my son was born. They cared enough to see my baby to get immunized.

  • Kristin Gray 2 years ago

    Also there’s an article on dearly about a 4 year old died from the flu. She never received the flu shot. It might have been prevented. Especially if the people around her got the flu shot too. Thats herd immunity.

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