A 23-year-old mom, Caitlin Fladager from Vancouver, Canada, Tweeted about her husband’s tradition of taking their daughter out on “daddy-daughter” dates.

The post was meant as a testament to her her husband for being a loving father to their daughter, but according to Cafe Mom, not everyone found the post endearing.

In previous posts, Fladager wrote about how she got pregnant unexpectedly when she and her husband were teenagers. People told her that “her life was over” and that she should not expect her boyfriend to stick around. Now they are married and have two children together.

So in line with her other posts about her husband’s loyalty to her and their kids, Fladager posted:

Every month this year, my husband has taken our daughter out on “dates”. He brings her home flowers, helps her pick out a dress, and takes her out to split a dessert with him. It’s become a tradition.

Every month this year, my husband has taken our daughter out on “dates”. He brings her home flowers, helps her pick out a dress, and takes her out to split a dessert with him. It’s become a tradition. ❤️ pic.twitter.com/MAbuExXVtq

— caitlinfladager (@caitlinflads_) November 29, 2017

People responded in different ways to the post. Some thought it was a sweet tradition between father and daughter and the post brought back warm memories of when their fathers would take them out on “daddy-daughter” dates.

Others thought it was inappropriate for a father to take his daughter out on a “date.”

Twitter user Doesnt_matter Judith wrote in several tweets:

When I read the tweet I only thought about how creepy & wrong it sounds. A dad shouldn’t go on dates with his daughter & helping her choose a dress (!) is creepy for a dad & teaches her a man has the right to choose your clothes when you go on dates together. I’m shocked that everybody except you & me think this is a cute & lovely idea. Some dads will sadly teach their daughters she has to pay for the dessert. My dad is awesome but sadly not all fathers are like him.

It also started several debates and discussions about whether it was adorable or creepy to call it a “date.”

It seems like Fladager meant the post as a “thank-you” to her husband for being there for his daughter and helping her feel special, the way he made her feel special by staying with her despite her unexpected pregnancy.

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